[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.jenta.cz\/nenicte-si-zivot-zbytecnymi-hadkami\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.jenta.cz\/nenicte-si-zivot-zbytecnymi-hadkami\/","headline":"Neni\u010dte si \u017eivot zbyte\u010dn\u00fdmi h\u00e1dkami","name":"Neni\u010dte si \u017eivot zbyte\u010dn\u00fdmi h\u00e1dkami","description":"Stoj\u00ed to v\u016fbec za to? \u0158e\u0161it konflikt neznamen\u00e1 h\u00e1dat se n\u011bkolik t\u00fddn\u016f po\u0159\u00e1d o stejn\u00e9 v\u011bci. Z toho byste se brzy v\u0161ichni zbl\u00e1znili.\u00a0 Pokud jste se ned\u00e1vno s n\u011bk\u00fdm poh\u00e1dali a po\u0159\u00e1d se v\u00e1m to hon\u00ed hlavou a v\u0159e to ve v\u00e1s, polo\u017ete si ot\u00e1zku, jestli v\u00e1m to stoj\u00ed za to. Je to opravdu tak...","datePublished":"2023-06-02","dateModified":"2023-06-02","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.jenta.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.jenta.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0dc285cbe86eecc8073f119fcb2e2c7032b51533f5bb47611c7d4a598558b8b7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0dc285cbe86eecc8073f119fcb2e2c7032b51533f5bb47611c7d4a598558b8b7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"jenta.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.jenta.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a287983_w2241_t1498498964.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.jenta.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a287983_w2241_t1498498964.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.jenta.cz\/nenicte-si-zivot-zbytecnymi-hadkami\/","wordCount":515,"articleBody":"Stoj\u00ed to v\u016fbec za to?\u0158e\u0161it konflikt neznamen\u00e1 h\u00e1dat se n\u011bkolik t\u00fddn\u016f po\u0159\u00e1d o stejn\u00e9 v\u011bci. Z toho byste se brzy v\u0161ichni zbl\u00e1znili.\u00a0 Pokud jste se ned\u00e1vno s n\u011bk\u00fdm poh\u00e1dali a po\u0159\u00e1d se v\u00e1m to hon\u00ed hlavou a v\u0159e to ve v\u00e1s, polo\u017ete si ot\u00e1zku, jestli v\u00e1m to stoj\u00ed za to. Je to opravdu tak d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, nebo jde jen o va\u0161e ego? Pokud jde o to druh\u00e9, sna\u017ete se druh\u00e9 stran\u011b odpustit a ho\u010fte to za hlavu.Vypi\u0161te se z tohoTak\u00e9 pom\u016f\u017ee n\u011bjak to ze sebe dostat. Ale ne\u017e do toho zasv\u011bcovat n\u011bkoho dal\u0161\u00edho, mo\u017en\u00e1 prosp\u011bje sv\u011b\u0159it se pap\u00edru. T\u0159eba proniknete k j\u00e1dru probl\u00e9mu, pochop\u00edte d\u016fvod, pro\u010d v\u00e1s to tak tr\u00e1p\u00ed a pro\u010d jste zareagovali tak, jak jste zareagovali. Mo\u017en\u00e1 zjist\u00edte, \u017ee za druh\u00e1 strana ani okol\u00ed nemohou, ale jde o v\u00e1\u0161 vnit\u0159n\u00ed probl\u00e9m.Obra\u0165te se na n\u011bkoho neutr\u00e1ln\u00edhoPokud m\u00e1te n\u011bkoho, komu d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ujete a kdo druhou stranu sporu osobn\u011b nezn\u00e1, popi\u0161te mu celou situaci. Pokud mo\u017eno objektivn\u011b a bez p\u0159\u00edkras. Mo\u017en\u00e1 si je\u0161t\u011b b\u011bhem rozhovoru uv\u011bdom\u00edte, \u017ee to nen\u00ed tak d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, jak jste to vn\u00edmali p\u016fvodn\u011b.\u00a0Neduste to v sob\u011b, mluvte o tomHlavn\u011b neml\u010dte. Neznamen\u00e1 to vrhat se hned do v\u00e1\u0161niv\u00fdch h\u00e1dek, ale d\u00e1t sv\u00fdm emoc\u00edm pr\u016fchod. Nejhor\u0161\u00ed je dr\u017eet ti v sob\u011b a pozorovat, jak se dlouholet\u00fd vztah rozpad\u00e1. Neprosp\u011bje to ani jedn\u00e9 stran\u011b. Setkejte se na n\u011bjak\u00e9m p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9m m\u00edst\u011b, t\u0159eba v kav\u00e1rn\u011b, a zkuste popsat situaci z va\u0161eho pohledu.Vyslechn\u011bte tak\u00e9 druhou stranuStejn\u011b jako jste m\u011bli mo\u017enost popsat situaci ze sv\u00e9 strany, nechte tak\u00e9 druh\u00e9ho, a\u0165 \u0159ekne, jak to vid\u00ed on. Nep\u0159eru\u0161ujte ho. Mo\u017en\u00e1 v\u00e1m druh\u00e1 strana pod\u00e1 uspokojiv\u00e9 vysv\u011btlen\u00ed, pro\u010d jednala tak, jak jednala. V\u011bt\u0161ina konflikt\u016f je jen zbyte\u010dn\u00e9 nedorozum\u011bn\u00ed. M\u016f\u017ee se tak\u00e9 st\u00e1t, \u017ee v\u00e1m druh\u00e1 strana \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 uspokojiv\u00e9 vysv\u011btlen\u00ed neposkytne a va\u0161i reakci v\u016fbec nepochop\u00ed. Nen\u00ed d\u016fvod to dramatizovat. Odlo\u017ete emoce a zachovejte klid. Prost\u011b si p\u0159iznejte, \u017ee se v t\u00e9to v\u011bci neshodnete. Ale aspo\u0148 v\u00edte, na \u010dem jste. M\u016f\u017eete se rozhodnout, jestli jde o n\u011bco z\u00e1sadn\u00edho, kv\u016fli \u010demu va\u0161e p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed nem\u016f\u017ee pokra\u010dovat, nebo se jedn\u00e1 o n\u011bco, na co m\u00e1 ka\u017ed\u00fd z v\u00e1s odli\u0161n\u00fd pohled, a nem\u00e1 cenu to p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b vytahovat.Pus\u0165te to z hlavyBu\u010f se konflikt vy\u0159e\u0161il, nebo jste se shodli na tom, \u017ee se neshodnete. A\u0165 u\u017e to dopadlo jakkoliv, je to pry\u010d. Nechte to plavat, nem\u00e1 smysl se k tomu po\u0159\u00e1d vracet.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.5\/5 - (10 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Neni\u010dte si \u017eivot zbyte\u010dn\u00fdmi h\u00e1dkami","item":"https:\/\/www.jenta.cz\/nenicte-si-zivot-zbytecnymi-hadkami\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]